Monday, October 10, 2011

f a m i l y p i c s

 Family pics.
I rate em' right up there
with
plucking eyebrows.
Cringe at em' both.
Despise em' really.
Not the pics. per say,
cuz' amazingly enough
little miracles take place
with each click of the lens
and a few actually turn out....
surprisingly nice.

It's the PROCESS,
I really dislike.
The gettin' it all together.
The weighty chore of figuring out what to wear,
  everyone looking just right,
 at the exact same moment.
It's darn near impossible really.
Oh, but we moms practically die trying.
.

I have the privilege of being dear friends with the talented Whimsy Pix,
when she called this morning stressing about which and what
to wear for her family pics.  
 I knew.
I knew it was a curse.
Prep for family pics. was an unavoidable curse. 
That girl's got more talent, style and down right awesome flare,
than I could ever dream to have,
and even SHE stresses about family pics.

I was reminded today and lately too, how much a conversation with a good friend "lifts."
It's like therapy.
I forget when I'm feeling the weight of the world,
 that my load isn't much heavier
or different, for that matter,
than anyone else.
It seems, when I open up, with unfeigned conversation
I find this to be TRUE.
Undoubtedly true.

I believe it's crucial that we,
"Vent", or "Share", if you will,
 refrain from judgment,
but rather, take time to listen, relate, and LOVE.
The impact?
Growth, aid, and comfort,
to name a very, small few.

I'm thankful for the reminder,
we are all in this together, more similar than we will ever know.

I've been blessed my entire life, 
with AMAZING friends.
Friends who listen without judgment,
forgive me of my follies,
accept me the way I am,
support and lend me their hand
and most importantly...
love me.

Cuz this girl's a lover,
and Oh how I LOVE my friends.
BIG, BIG, BIG
each and every one.




I didn't listen when Whimsy Pix advised, "Never bare your arms. 3/4 sleeves are always best." Darn, I wish I'd taken heed, and POOR Bob, completely uncomfortable with any display of PDA!

Not me, I'd devour him in public if he'd let me! wink, wink

This, of the girls, one of my faves.
Sure easy to spot my two cheesballs, A?!
Mr. Max, captured in his very true colors.

Yo, Avery....camera's this way!








Avery is missing shoes in every family shoot we've ever done.

It is NO surprise to me that one of Max's only words is, OWEN!
  

Thank you, gifted Cynthia for your patience with my family and the beautiful pictures you captured in the midst of our little clan's chaos!